Sunday, August 7, 2011

When Nature Calls The Sky...

Long time since I last wrote..since my last post,there has been ample number of times when I have thought of blogging..you prepare yourself,you connect to the world,get your blog window open,write a few lines and then zaap..you delete,you think “naaaah, not worth of blogging” and seek for other options..(Not Facebook..its outdated..MARK my words)
So here I am today writing a blog on a very very wet morning..For all the pervert thinkers Wet means “its raining” ..Its not that I have got a an awesome topic to speak on but just that I have nothing else to do.
Well what can I say..rains has been the spoil sport for the last few outdoor ventures of mine..Dinners got cancelled,outings got delayed,friends laid down on beds…some dozing,some lazy,some sick,some…….forget it..
The crux is rains ruins it all..Rains are soothing no doubt but not incessant rains..the watter logging,the traffics jams,the slippery roads,wet clothes…Again perverts will say “hey,wet clothes is good”..but this blog is not for perverts..
Take today for example..Its friendship day..1st Sunday of august..i ask do you really need a day to celebrate friendship..suddenly on F day all the people come back from dead and greet each other..Meet or no meet,FB surely has the maximum hits..Plans for many such “today is D day” people got wet with the rain..
For me F day is really a “F” day..its just a western way to market a gift product..Come on,seriously do you ever believe in “hug day” or “kiss day” or “bear day”..Pooh..seriously for me its just as lame as giving a “MONSSON SALE” in a drought only cause the designated months have set in…
Coming back to today..Its raining so hard that I wonder the water problems expected to arise 20 years from now may be delayed..My own plans of a village outing got washed away..Some friends plans got delayed as they are waiting that the rain gods will stop this..Many friends are bored to hell thinking of what to do..Its been ages since they woke up..Few by lightening,few by parents,few to enjoy the morning rain and ONE for client servicing..Hats off to you..I know you are reading this..
As for the rest all I will end here..HAPPY RAINY DAY…

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

MISUNDERSTOOD????

huh..my first blog..
am just allowing my thoughts 2 flow cz am not a planned writer or blogger in this case..first of all a big thanx to mr. Rohit Agarwal for opening the door for me {window to be specific} to the world of blogging.

"mereko koi samjha nahi",
"keu amay bujhlo na re"
"am always misunderstood"
sounding familiar right?..well..these statements have sometime or other passed through and will in future in ur thought process..No one,and i mean NO ONE,has ever been understood perfectly..no one will understood you perfectly all the time..not ur dad,ur mom,ur siblings,ur friends,ur colleagues,no one..Its harsh,but true..thus explains "sach karwa hota hai" philosophy..
but why feel bad or anything about it..ask yourself.
"have i understood myself all the time perfectly"
just ask and the answer will come..NO..{this answer is inevitable subject to your honesty.if the answer is anything but this leave my blog right away you cheat!!!}
Accept the inevitable.we all are humans hence we should not aspire to do perfect things nor can we expect such miracles.If you believe someone understands u totally then u r living in a illusion which u will realise only the second it breaks..the statement can be that "he/she understands me as no one else does" but not "perfectly"
the heading statement therefore can only raise indifference cz even the listener has the same appeal..and thus the indifference makes ur statement more strong,"dekha ye bhi samjha nahi"
I am not a philosopher but will just say dont live life expecting miracles to happen.make them..and ur first and only and last step must be "understand ur ownself"
If you master it,it will not matter if others understand u or not.If you cant then you will go about with statements which may raise sympathy but not respect.It will make you vulnerable and believe this world feeds on emotions..
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