Wednesday, March 23, 2011

MISUNDERSTOOD????

huh..my first blog..
am just allowing my thoughts 2 flow cz am not a planned writer or blogger in this case..first of all a big thanx to mr. Rohit Agarwal for opening the door for me {window to be specific} to the world of blogging.

"mereko koi samjha nahi",
"keu amay bujhlo na re"
"am always misunderstood"
sounding familiar right?..well..these statements have sometime or other passed through and will in future in ur thought process..No one,and i mean NO ONE,has ever been understood perfectly..no one will understood you perfectly all the time..not ur dad,ur mom,ur siblings,ur friends,ur colleagues,no one..Its harsh,but true..thus explains "sach karwa hota hai" philosophy..
but why feel bad or anything about it..ask yourself.
"have i understood myself all the time perfectly"
just ask and the answer will come..NO..{this answer is inevitable subject to your honesty.if the answer is anything but this leave my blog right away you cheat!!!}
Accept the inevitable.we all are humans hence we should not aspire to do perfect things nor can we expect such miracles.If you believe someone understands u totally then u r living in a illusion which u will realise only the second it breaks..the statement can be that "he/she understands me as no one else does" but not "perfectly"
the heading statement therefore can only raise indifference cz even the listener has the same appeal..and thus the indifference makes ur statement more strong,"dekha ye bhi samjha nahi"
I am not a philosopher but will just say dont live life expecting miracles to happen.make them..and ur first and only and last step must be "understand ur ownself"
If you master it,it will not matter if others understand u or not.If you cant then you will go about with statements which may raise sympathy but not respect.It will make you vulnerable and believe this world feeds on emotions..
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1 comment:

  1. Good start!
    "dont live life expecting miracles to happen.make them" LIKE!
    Want more from u..

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